Comments on: How to Solve the Root Cause of Your Money Story https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/ Tap into Transformation & Life Coaching Singapore Fri, 28 Jun 2024 03:58:30 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Evelyn https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/#comment-384782 Tue, 19 Nov 2013 01:02:45 +0000 https://www.evelynlim.com/?p=8786#comment-384782 In reply to Lucy.

Hello Lucy,

Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate your letting me know that the article has been useful for you. I enjoyed reading the quote that you have highlighted.

Yes, definitely heal yourself first. Once you have done enough healing, you will be in a more empowered situation to help her. You will be in a position of strength and abundance, rather than in a position of insecurity and lack.

She is blessed to have you as a mother. You have lovingly accepted her into your family. There is no greater gift. You are also blessed to have her as your daughter, for you see in her a mirror of you.

Let me know if you need assistance with healing work. Email me at abundance tapestry @ gmail.com. Every small shift goes a long way!

Love and abundance always,
Evelyn

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By: Lucy https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/#comment-372408 Tue, 12 Nov 2013 18:52:21 +0000 https://www.evelynlim.com/?p=8786#comment-372408 In reply to Evelyn.

I read this article with regards to myself and your questions regarding one’s birth story particularly struck me too. I have a 17 year old daughter, adopted from an orphanage in Eastern Europe at the age two. Her mother gave birth and just left her. I am grappling with a whole host of issues with regards to her significant birth trauma, so much so I have not been looking at my own. We have been experiencing a lot of financial crises in the past couple of years and I fear the impact on her has made her even more insecure. Obviously, we must attend to our own issues and fix them. We want to protect our children but forget there is a child within ourselves who has never resolved her own issues, especially around deserving abundance, prosperity and love. I can see this so clearly in my lovely daughter, she is everything I would have wanted to be when I was her age and yet she doesn’t see it at all. Most of all I see, daily, that she never feels deserving of anything good. When she receives goodness, she can’t hold onto it. Perhaps, this can be said for all of us who don’t feel we really deserve all the goodness the Universe has to offer us. I love the line from the movie Mame, where she says something like this, “Life is a banquet, but most people are like beggars starving to death” Thanks for this insightful article…look forward to more. From a grateful mother.

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By: Rahul Kundliya https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/#comment-318814 Mon, 23 Sep 2013 10:07:26 +0000 https://www.evelynlim.com/?p=8786#comment-318814 I visit your website first time, but really i impressed a lot. No doubt that you are a good and successful blogger. Your all post are good, but i check few of them, which i prefer best.

You are doing great work, keep it up !!

All the best for your future 🙂

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By: Evelyn https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/#comment-316341 Fri, 20 Sep 2013 09:21:22 +0000 https://www.evelynlim.com/?p=8786#comment-316341 In reply to Li-ling.

Hello Li-ling,

Luckily we now know enough rather than limit ourselves with the same story. It is also great that you take the measures in not passing the same money stories to your daughter. Yaaayyy to conscious parenting!

Abundance always,
Evelyn

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By: Evelyn https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/#comment-316334 Fri, 20 Sep 2013 09:16:12 +0000 https://www.evelynlim.com/?p=8786#comment-316334 In reply to Betsy/Zen Mama.

Hello Betsy,

Thank you for your feedback on the graphic.

I had no idea about the requirement by Waldorf school. How interesting!

Yes, when we can look at our situation with a sense of non-attachment, we find that we are able to gain a much higher perspective. It’s great that you are making the attempt to connect the dots at the various generation levels. I wish you much success and healing!

Love and abundance always,
Evelyn

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By: Dan Black https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/#comment-316208 Fri, 20 Sep 2013 04:48:15 +0000 https://www.evelynlim.com/?p=8786#comment-316208 Amazing quotes at the start of the post! Being self-aware of our money patterns is so important. Taking time to think on our past and plan for the future positions us for a better future. Great thoughts!

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By: Li-ling https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/#comment-315661 Thu, 19 Sep 2013 13:36:40 +0000 https://www.evelynlim.com/?p=8786#comment-315661 Evelyn, you’ve really struck a chord here. I recently had this realisation that my money story – typical of a large number of money stories – is embedded in the perception that Earning Money has to be a result of Hard Work.
It certainly has been a perception handed down, as although affluent, my family history, similar to many Chinese immigrant stories, has a deeply held, deeply rooted belief that hard work is the only key to money.
I am slowly but surely changing the stories I am telling myself and more importantly I believe, I am working on not passing on the same money stories to my daughter.

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By: Betsy/Zen Mama https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/#comment-313774 Tue, 17 Sep 2013 04:00:22 +0000 https://www.evelynlim.com/?p=8786#comment-313774 Evelyn,
First, I have to say that I love the graphic!! So perfect for the money story. Secondly, I love your idea of looking at your birth story. Did you know that the Waldorf school asks this of parents when they accept a student to their school? I have been thinking a lot about my “money story” and the relationship to my upbringing. It’s fascinating when you can look at it with no attachment. I’ve thought about my parents and their parents and how the generations affect me and in turn how that affects my kids. Thanks for adding to my work and giving me some more to think about!!

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By: Evelyn https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/#comment-313687 Tue, 17 Sep 2013 01:54:20 +0000 https://www.evelynlim.com/?p=8786#comment-313687 In reply to Galen Pearl.

Hello Galen,

One can have a poor relationship with others but also can have a poor relationship with money. Money, like anything else, is energy. By healing and creating a loving relationship with money, you can experience greater financial well-being.

It’s great that my post has brought about more awareness 🙂

Love and abundance always,
Evelyn

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By: Evelyn https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-solve-the-root-cause-of-your-money-story/#comment-313685 Tue, 17 Sep 2013 01:52:11 +0000 https://www.evelynlim.com/?p=8786#comment-313685 In reply to Willie Mae McKoy.

Hello Willie,

If you want to remove repeated patterns, energy healing work can help. Check out my services at https://www.WealthTapestry.com.

Love and abundance always,
Evelyn

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